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Everyone loves the beginning of relationships. That dizzy phase when you can’t keep your hands off each other. Everything feels perfect. Even the things you would usually hate don’t seem to bother you. Love is in the air and you feel good to have someone who loves you back. You feel that your life couldn’t get any better. Ah, that glorious honeymoon phase of a relationship! However, the thing about the honeymoon phase is that it inevitably comes to an end....

The prospect of ending a marriage brings in a whirlwind of confusion and emotions. You may stay on in an awful marriage hoping for things to improve or maybe you’re still over the fence about whether your problems are big enough to warrant walking out. To make this decision easier, we discuss some clear signs you are ready for a divorce, in consultation with psychotherapist Jui Pimple (MA in Psychology), a trained Rational Emotive Behavior therapist, and A Bach Remedy practitioner who specializes in online counseling....

The more you love someone, the harder it is to find the right words to say to end it. So writing down your feelings may just be the better solution that allows you to find closure in a more dignified way. A text or a breakup phone call is too impersonal for someone you love and may end up being hurtful. Hence, a letter for breaking up with someone you love will not only make it very personal, but will also add more value for the effort you put in....

Whether it is a separation or a divorce, it is normal to miss the bond that you once shared with your husband. It’s normal to wish that your marriage had not ended the way it did. You might miss your husband and want him back. You might still want to make it work. If you want to win back your husband after he leaves you, we have a few tips that could help....

You come across so many high-flying social media influencers every day, but sometimes, one of them might just catch your fancy a little more than others, and eventually turn into your crush. Or, your last Tinder date might have been someone who’s making it big in the influencer world. One of your college crushes might also have gone on to become a well-known Instagrammer. Let us tell you that the rock-solid path to your crush’s heart is a gift that will get his/her ‘likes’ and get you drowned in mushy emojis....

Worse yet, finding yourself involved with one can lead to a messy few months, where you’ll struggle to fight between the constant push and pull of the whole dynamic. So how do you know you are dating a commitment-phobe? There are some definite signs of a commitment-phobe that you can easily spot. People who have a fear of getting into relationships show commitment-phobe traits. What are the signs of a commitment-phobic woman or signs of a commitment-phobic man?...

33 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend About Yourself If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you need to know if your boyfriend is as invested as you are. According to statistics, 66% of long-distance relationships do not last because couples do not plan for their future together. Well, in that case, all you need are deep and personal questions to ask your boyfriend to see if he is serious about you. Without any further ado, here is a list of great questions to ask your boyfriend about yourself....

Why Masturbation For Women Is A Good Idea You know the age-old words of wisdom – love thyself. Well, let’s just say the elusive self-pleasure meaning is hidden in these wise words and this as close as you’d come to making love to yourself, literally. Jokes aside, masturbation is one of the first steps toward embracing your sexuality and acknowledging that your body has its own needs. Trust us when we tell you that goes a long way in helping you have a fulfilling sex life that focuses on your own gratification and not just being subservient to the needs of your partner....

The biggest issues actually arise from the most trivial relationship mistakes. And then before you even get the time to correct it you ruined the best relationship you ever had. People say you learn lessons from your failed relationships. While that is true, it is also true that you can pinpoint and correct the common mistakes in a relationship to make it work as well. What Are The Common Mistakes In Relationships?...

If your wife or girlfriend has been showing suspicious behavior where she acts evasive, hides her phone records and has become too busy to make time for you, we understand where your skepticism is coming from. But as a woman, I’ll tell you there are a lot of twists and turns for understanding why do women cheat. Why Do Women Cheat? 6 Possible Reasons Women as creatures are intuitive. When things don’t work out, she knows it coming well in advance....

The men in Bollywood, in chick flick novels, in advertisements, are packed with masculine confidence who get their shy damsels to blush and make them fall in love with the heroes. Here we are offering you some tips- romantic, naughty and fun to whisper in his ears and make him blush and make him fall in love with you. Close your eyes and imagine someone whispering in your ears, softly, seductively, lightly almost like a feather touching your nape, remember how it sent those good shivers down your body, how it made your cheeks redden, we will now use this on the men!...

There is no greater embarrassment than getting caught while doing the nasty. One minute you’re French kissing your man and things are getting hot and heavy, and the next, you are staring down at the flushed face of your mother. Oof, the embarrassment is real. Things sometimes tend to go south when we let out libido get the better of us. Sometimes we are too lax in locking doors before getting down to do the deed, and sometimes it is fate....

And for good reason. Monogamy, after all, has been at the center of our ideas surrounding love and companionship, across societies. But with this article, and with an expert in our arsenal, our plan is to make it easier for you to sail through the tumultuous waters of polyamory. Relationship and intimacy coach Shivanya Yogmayaa (internationally certified in the therapeutic modalities of EFT, NLP, CBT, REBT, etc), who specializes in different forms of couples counseling, talked to us on all things polyamorous so that we could bring to you a nuanced take on the topic and help you understand the simplicity that is the basis of this seemingly complex concept....

Deepak Kashyap says: Normal is one word, which when expressed as a desire, can become a single most [restict]important reason to feel inadequate and hence face a bit of low self-esteem, stress and confusion. You haven’t mentioned how long you had been with her, I’d imagine that it was long enough and you invested enough, for it to have the profound effect that it did, on you. So right off the bat, I would say it is normal for you to lament the loss of something that was so dear to you....

My husband expected me to do all household chores single-handedly. We could never get any domestic help as nobody would work in our house for long because of his bad temper. My day would start at 4.30 am: Clean the house, lay everything ready for him neatly on the bed including his socks, shoes, wallet, clothes, make breakfast and lunch for the three of us (those days his younger brother lived with us) and then rush to work by 8....

A saying that rings true for the story of Rahul and Natasha set in the bustling city of dreams – Mumbai, where perhaps more hopes are extinguished than fulfilled. This is a story of infidelity in a marriage, hurt, self-loathing and compromise. In the end, that is precisely what makes relationships work – compromises. Rahul is a playwright – a creative, behind-the-scenes guy – while Natasha a chartered accountant working with one of the largest accounting firms in the world....

Singing Pyar Hua Ekrar Huya under the umbrella is your idea of romance. You can sit by the window all day and listen to the pitter-patter and look at the lashing rain. Sounds relatable? You’re displaying the signs you are a pluviophile – a person who loves rain. Who Is A Pluviophile? The definition of pluviophile is a ‘lover of rain’. That means somebody who finds joy and peace during rains....

An overwhelming need to avoid confrontation often makes people tolerate infidelity, abuse, and a lack of trust and contentment. If you are trying to figure out how to get out of an unhealthy relationship, the first step is to identify the issues you are facing. Leaving a bad relationship is not easy, we agree. It’s especially hard if you love your partner. However, it’s not impossible either. To be able to do that, you have to first identify the warning signs and acknowledge them for what they are....

An affair withdrawal in many cases may be like a drug withdrawal. You’ll feel uneasy, anxious and may often be tempted to get in touch with your lover and start the affair yet again. All the effort that you would have put will go in vain if you restart and you are certainly inviting more trouble in your life in the long run. Related reading: I’m depressed and unable to move on after my breakup...

Hello Ma’am, I’m an eighteen-year-old woman and I’ve been masturbating for a year. The situation is that now I feel restless if I don’t do it for a day. Also, my clitoris has become quite large. What is this happening to me? Please help. Counsellor Sharmila Majumdar says: Dear Young lady, To begin with, masturbation is an absolutely normal and healthy exercise. It also eliminates the risk and fear of sexually transmitted infections....