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Still confused, and wondering, what does demisexual mean? Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. We’re here to help you in your endeavor to understand the demisexual traits, backed by expert insights from sexologist Dr. Rajan Bhonsle (MD, MBBS Medicine and Surgery), who specializes in pre-marital counseling and has over three decades of experience as a sex therapist. Let’s dive into everything you need to know about this sexual orientation and ways to figure out if you identify as one....

A divorce can leave you emotionally battered, we know. Whether it was the prolonged legal fight or the arguments at home or even the battles inside your own head — life right after the divorce feels rather exhausting and empty. Just the thought of investing so much time and energy in a new relationship can feel like you are being asked to move mountains. Putting yourself out there might take more work than it used to earlier....

We love too much and respect too little Love and relationships and related issues have always intrigued Raksha, and she is always looking for answers. As a part of her research, she has interviewed many across the Indian subcontinent and abroad to discuss issues the urban Indian population face in their relationships. She met Dr Kushal Jain, a clinical psychiatrist and he narrated to her several instances were couples (married or otherwise) approached him for consultation....

Know your number To know your number, you will have to add the numbers of your date of birth, until you reach a single digit. For example, if your date of birth is 24th January 2001, to find your number add 2+4+0+1+2+0+0+1=10=>1+0=1 Here is what the numbers indicate. 1. The raging bull You like to take charge of life as well as in your bedroom. You are the master and you go after what you want....

As a counselor, I have observed that during such phases of marriage, when the connection with spouse or boyfriend is at its lowest, you are most likely to be vulnerable and get attracted to another ‘potential mate’. It is quite common to be married and have a crush if your needs are not being met in your marriage. This can happen if you have an inattentive spouse or if you happen to be a die-hard romantic and fall easily in love with people....

Having sex is no more about just dropping your pants whenever you feel like it. In a joint family, a lot of other things have to be factored in before you can finally orgasm. Read on more to understand what it’s like. Don’t get me wrong, it can be quite the thrill once you figure it out. Having Sex In A Joint Family So, you think, yes it’s difficult to have sex in a joint family, no points for guessing that....

You’re in for a ride, and here’s a fair warning – it might get a teensy bit uncomfortable. For today’s reality check (because that’s what it is!) I have Nandita Rambhia (MSc, Applied Psychology) with me. With an experience of over a decade in psychotherapy, Nandita has a few sparkling observations to make and some priceless guidance to give. Let’s dive deep into the world of relationships and navigate the two ends of the spectrum on which they exist....

When it comes to divorce, even seemingly progressive individuals suddenly cower with a terrified gaze, pleading with the woman to consider any option but divorce. Granted, life after divorce for women is no walk in the park, but the stigma around it makes it a lot worse. Let’s take a look at what divorced women in India go through, and how they navigate the damaging notions attached to a divorcee that Indian society needs to shake off collectively....

If your parents do not like your partner, it can cause a lot of stress for you. You’re filled with constant thoughts about what your life will look like if they get you married off to somebody else. While we all want our parents’ blessings, at times, their unwillingness can be greatly upsetting and disappointing. In such a case, you are at a crossroads. On one hand, you do not want to hurt and disappoint the wonderful people who raised you....

If indifference to fellow human beings is inhumane, it’s unthinkable what someone goes through when they feel ignored in a relationship. The psychological effects of being ignored by someone you love can only be soul-searing and mentally torturous. When a loved one doesn’t give us the attention we deserve, our first instinct is to get to the root of the problem and weed it out. However, in doing so, another vital question goes unaddressed: how to deal with being ignored by someone you love?...

Finding love while traveling is probably the most romantic thing out there, but it’s also equally elusive. When was the last time you managed to find the courage to talk to strangers on a vacation (apart from that time you got too drunk to remember any of it)? To make sure you try your hand at this elusive-yet-alluring romantic premise, let’s take a look at just what you need to do to maximize your chances of finding your very own Enrique, the Portuguese musician who serenaded his way into your heart whilst in Jamaica....

In the last few years, social media has transformed the way we communicate, and it helps us stay connected. Yes, it’s true that it has become a part of our daily lives and some can’t spend a day without it. Most of us here are always sharing snippets of what goes on during the day to our friends, but there are times we receive unwanted texts. There is a way out of this and there are several ways for you to tell someone to stop contacting you....

Before we figure out how to love someone, as a warm-up, I recommend that you honestly look at the range of your emotional scale. Are you resilient? Or would you compare your scale to a teaspoon (meaning, it is frivolous or short-tempered)? An honest answer will help you understand if you are ready to find the answer to how to love someone truly – whether your mind and body are ready for that relationship....

How to treat a woman you love is not merely about taking her to the right movies to show her that you care. It runs much deeper than that. In a relationship, a woman does not just want to have a good time but also wants to develop a strong, meaningful connection with you, an emotional intimacy that she would savor. The answer to how to treat your girlfriend right lies in breaking down those walls, showing her your vulnerable side and letting her into your heart and life....

It is important to take up the topic of the legalization of same-sex marriage and look into why it is so important to the queer community in the first place. It is not only about securing equal rights but also a means to something much larger. That something is our happiness and simple desire to be able to solemnize a relationship we cherish so dearly. Why Gay Marriage Should Be Legal As a gay man of 32 years and having spent 5 years in a committed relationship, which my partner and I call “marriage”, I still feel that the entire world should know about our relationship....

Marriage happened. An arranged marriage with a city educated, North Indian guy who is caring, loving, open-minded, and a complete gentleman. Then came cooking for the large family. Well, it was difficult, but I soon mastered the art. Gradually, I gained new skills. Because learning new things is always so much fun, right? Related reading: No sex, please, we’re married The realisation dawned late that those skills were not just for learning, but for rebuilding the life I knew so well....

It’s a new age after all. Our perspectives and ideas of relationships, love, intimacy and commitment are changing. Queer love, open marriages, polyamory, and so on are realities that go beyond the notion of a socially accepted bond involving two heterosexual people. Does that really invalidate the institution of marriage? While people are being more accepting of live-in relationships, and open partnerships featuring ethical polyamory, the concept of marriage still holds some value to a bigger crowd....

The rampant increase in emotional affairs is a sign that most couples have something lacking in their marriages. The success of any relationship depends not only on physical intimacy but also on emotional support and stability. However, in today’s hustle-bustle of life, married couples are forgetting this essential fact, as a result of which emotional infidelity is becoming a rampant phenomenon. Statistics show that couples who are in their 20s are likely to fall prey to emotional cheating, which is not actually viewed as real cheating....

No actor of this generation can match up to the level of intensity and emotions displayed with full conviction by Shahid Kapoor in the movie Kabir Singh. The star should take a bow for his acting prowess. Someone, please give him every single award out there. Having said that, let’s focus on Kabir and his relationship with Preeti (Kiara Advani), a love that has kicked up a lot of dust....

Ever since I was a kid, I used to see my father bring multiple glass bottles of Royal Stag, Royal Challenge whiskey home. He consumed multiple foreign brands of whiskey as well – they were heavily priced, considering that they were priced at INR 1,600 during 2005-06. That was my reality of living with an alcoholic father. My mother first discovered that he used to drink regularly and not just limited to occasions like social gatherings or parties in October 1999, when I was about 7-8 months old....