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When intimacy is gone in a relationship, you will feel a loss of the old bond you shared and would might not feel the same urge to hug or kiss your unaffectionate partner. Maria and Smith were together for three years before Smith started to feel a void in the relationship. “There were plenty of reasons for the differences between us but one common explanation that I can think of was the lack of affection and intimacy in our relationship....

Introduction for Dr. Aman Bhonsle Dr Aman is a Relationship Counsellor, Consulting Psychotherapist and Author who deals with emotionally distressed clients having problems with their interpersonal as well as intrapersonal relationships. Apart from helping people with smart approaches to deal with boredom in a relationship, he also works with them to find dignified and eloquent solutions. 1. What are some of the reasons why people get bored in their relationships? Boredom is not just a problem that is exclusive to relationships....

They told me that all good men are either married or have moved out of town. They also told me there are fair chances of bumping into stalkers on these dating platforms. I was shocked when a friend said that Tinder reeks of desperation and good girls should only go to matrimonial sites or find a good Christian boy at their local church. But I didn’t agree with all that when I was figuring out how to find love....

Sometimes we find ourselves in situations, more specifically relationships with no future, but in those moments, what you have feels like enough. Like you don’t need anything else and you don’t want to think logically about the next step. You just want to live in the moment because you’re happy with that person. Have you ever felt this way? Love Without Worrying About Future How does one know who their soulmate, their perfect partner, their dream come true is?...

Now close your eyes for a moment and visualize yourself in the attire in your mind. Are there many wedding suits for groom that come into your mind? I am sure they do and you may want all of them. That isn’t possible. So, visualize harder, how do you see yourself on your special day and what kind of energy do you want to exude? Buy your costume accordingly....

Zodiac signs can actually govern a lot of things when it comes to your personality and traits. Do you have it in you to be a detective? Check your zodiac sign. Do you have expensive tastes? It could be your sun sign. For greater clarity, we bring you this lowdown on the best zodiac signs in terms of attraction, in collaboration with astrologer and Vastu consultant Kreena Desai. Top 5 Hottest Zodiac Signs Let us start by taking a look at the hotness meter....

And when should you start talking about moving in together? When you love and trust your partner completely. If cohabiting and traveling together has worked out well for you, maybe it’s time for this trial run. Fret not, we’re here to help you cover all bases before moving in together with the help of psychologist Shazia Saleem (Masters in Psychology), who specializes in relationship, separation, and divorce counseling. Moving In With Your Boyfriend – What To Expect?...

She could be genuinely happy. But what if she isn’t? What if she is just pretending to be happy to make you feel jealous? According to an empirical study, the reason that some people get into rebound relationships is that it’s one of the ways to boost self-confidence and to prove to themselves and others that they are still desirable. It’s a 50-50 chance that they are either struggling to get over you or they have gotten over you already....

Don’t expect it to be plain-sailing just because a relationship comes with a ‘no label’ label. The ‘no obligations, no attachment’ clause may make it sound like you’ve hit the relationship gold mine. However, a no-labels relationship can turn super complicated due to the lack of clarity. Expecting partner benefits without commitment might not agree with everyone’s dating style. And it boils down to one question – do relationships without labels actually work?...

They might just be more introverted than you. We all have varying degrees of general introversion or extroversion in our personalities. We might end up judging the other one as ‘reticent’ and ‘non-communicative,’ if they are slightly higher on the introversion scale than us.In India, kam bolna (frugal speech) is considered more masculine and macho and hence a more desirable trait in men. So culturally it would seem, we do not find expressive men who talk about their emotions very appealing....

The conversation around seeing someone vs dating becomes all the more confusing since the two terms are thrown around interchangeably. These words are heavily overused, and it almost sounds like a lot of people are unaware of the actual difference between the meaning of these two words. Coupled with other terms like double texting or cuffing, it seems like we’re learning something new every day. What does “seeing someone” mean?...

The traditional wedding has a lopsided expense sheet where either the groom’s side or the bride’s side is seen bleeding money. How much should the brides parents pay for the wedding? What do the groom’s parents pay for the wedding? These are questions that people find very difficult to answer because the wedding cost is a very touchy topic of discussion. It is important we reassess our traditions and make necessary modifications to fit our claims of progressive thinking....

While most folks go tizzy headed about star signs or the zodiac, not much is known about what they may be like in bed, and under the covers. It is not so easy to predict who might be kind, giving and generous in love and sex, but there seems to be agreement about compatibility with each zodiac. We are discussing which are the most selfish of the 12-star signs, and while some behaviours can be learned, there are just those who cannot help but be selfish and insensitive....

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. One-sided love is an unnecessary joke of fate that is extremely unfortunate in its very existence. However, there’s something beautiful about it too. The painful process, the humiliation, the whole senselessness that unrequited love comes with is a reminder of how human we are and how much control love and emotions have over us. This reminder has inspired countless works of art and has inspired many a movie....

Did you see what went wrong here? Joyce lacked social etiquette that caused her losing a great potential partner that Jacob could have been. But she didn’t know what’s wrong and when the pattern repeats, she wonders, “Am I undateable?” Have you also been losing at dates? Are you continuously failing to capture the attention of potential partners around you? If your answer to these questions is yes, then it is high time you evaluate the social habits which are making you undateable....

Well, the definition of “wealthy” can be relative. For sake of uniformity, if your assets, resources, or bank balance far exceeds the amount you need to lead a comfortable life, I pronounce you as “wealthy”. But can we really make a list of zodiac signs most likely to be wealthy? To be honest, the traits that these zodiac signs inherit could provide an impetus here. Let’s take a guess. What could Kim Kardashian and Alice Walton have in common?...

Sex during winters The cold, chilly and unruly winter winds nudge and tease you. It is during this season that you yearn to be loved and caressed and to indulge in winter sex. The excitement to find warmth in each other’s embrace and to enjoy a hot lovemaking session is the charm this cold season brings with it. Many do argue that having sex during winters is a task. The idea of undressing, getting intimate and the climax does sound like an arduous task....

You might have heard the term “vanilla personality” being thrown around. No, it doesn’t mean they taste like vanilla (although that’d be great). The exact characteristics of a vanilla personality are perceived differently by different people. While someone might fancy a vanilla personality, others will scoff at the very mention of one. So, what does it mean when a man is vanilla? Or when a woman is vanilla? Is it true that guys are attracted to vanilla personalities?...

I had an affair with a married man when I was 17 My first sexual experience was at 17 and let me declare that no one coerced me; it was a very deliberate decision on my part. At 17 I was quite mature and could hold a conversation with a 37-year-old teacher with impunity. And so, when it did happen – it was a gradual seduction of the mind that ended in bed with this gorgeous married man....

Trust is an indispensable element of any healthy relationship. Think of the best couple you know, the one that’s your couple goals. What are a few characteristics of their dynamic? Can you spot the unshakeable faith they have in each other? It is quite inspiring to see them together, isn’t it? Chances are, they’ve also put in a lot of work to arrive at this space in their relationship. Don’t worry, you’ll get there too after some troubleshooting....