What does it feel like when a guy goes down on you? It makes you feel cared for and cherished. He wants to make you happy and this is his way of showing that love. ‘My way of saying I love you to her is by going down on her’, one person said. Another said, ‘getting her off is what turns me on mentally and physically. The better it is for her the better it is for me....
For me personally, I’m at my worst self when my crush is around. Even saying “Erm, hey” without seeming like a complete weirdo seems to take all the energy out of me. And to make things worse, I somehow always end up commenting on the weather despite knowing that it’s a redundant topic that barely works when you want to charm someone. If you’ve found yourself in a similar ball game before, high five to you....
However, with increasing breakdowns in marriage in recent times, what exactly constitutes mental abuse is unknown. There are often rather bizarre excuses used as grounds for divorce. There are some truly weird reasons for divorce that have been cited by Indians in the past, and we just can’t get over over them! 5 Main Reasons For Divorce You never know what can be valid reasons for divorce in a marriage....
Whether it’s a mutual split or a contested divorce, the smallest of actions can be used as evidence against you and cause further damage to your case. We spoke to advocate Siddhartha Mishra (BA, LLB), a lawyer practicing at the Supreme Court of India, about what can be used against you in a divorce and how you can protect yourself. He also shared divorce tips for men and women and threw light on what not to do during a divorce....
8 Types Of Guys You Should Not Date In College I must add here; I’m not rejecting these groups of boys from the list of possible romantic connections. That is not my intention and it is not for me to decide. I just want to say, that from my personal experience I have gathered this intel. But if you want to venture into a relationship with any of the following types, I’ll at least know that you are going in with all the information....
What is more compelling- the ingrained doctrines of society or the natural instincts of your body which are desperate to feel the passion and fulfilment of uniting with your beloved mind, body, and soul? We at Bonobology believe that mothers should stop conditioning their girls to be a virgin bride. But it is only fair that you think and decide what you believe to be the best course for you....
No matter how long you have been married or how long you have known each other, no two people can agree on everything all the time. Even couples who get along very well with each other differ on many aspects when it comes to marital equations and other issues. Personally speaking, I had known my husband for 5 years before we got married and, I won’t lie, sometimes it seems like we do not agree on anything!...
However satisfying a relationship may seem, if both partners do not grow in a relationship, it can very soon feel like a cage where they feel both bored and suffocated. Partners have to grow both individually (personal growth) and as a couple (growing together in a relationship) for their feelings and the relationship to continue to flourish. We give you tips on how you can grow in a relationship along with suggestions from Ririi Trivedi, a certified past life regression therapist and clinical hypnotherapist....
This letter from a wife to a husband is worth a read Dear Husband, I don’t know why you don’t trust me. Why is it that every man I talk to a prospective usurper of your seat? Why is it that every action of mine viewed as being something more than what it is? Why’d you thought I hide things from you? Why are you suspicious all the time? This is a letter from a wife to a husband where I talk about years of hurt and pain you have given me....
Accepting bisexuality or anything different from the norm never came easily to the people around me. “You are so gay” was supposed to be an insult until someone in a P.T class retorted “Yeah, I am. So what?” Of course, that someone was sent to Sister Principal and her parents were called. What a travesty, indeed! Accepting Bisexuality There are a lot of first-time bi stories out there. Different circumstances and instances help people realize who they are truly meant to be and they rediscover themselves in the most beautiful and epiphanic way....
How Bhishma’s story started One evening, King Shantanu, the founder of the Kuru dynasty, was walking along the Ganges, when he saw Satyawati, the beautiful daughter of a fisherman. In those days, you came, you saw, you married. So it was with a heart full of optimism that Shantanu asked Satyawati’s father for her hand in marriage, only to have his hopes dashed to the ground. Click here to read the story of Ahalya and Indra, was it really adultery?...
Right from childhood, my bestie, Jenny, was obsessed with the romantic idea of falling in love with a ‘Prince Charming.’ She fantasized about her ‘meet cute’ and longed for someone who would vow to love her forever. And about a year ago, she was convinced that she had finally met her long-awaited prince. Everything was perfect, or at least seemed to be. He was, what most people might consider, an extremely attractive man....
For a majority of men and women, their first dates often start off well, and you want the other to think well of you. Eventually, very often, the first date does not lead to the next, with a lack of dating etiquette reflected in the actions and behavior of one person. Remember, dressing well for the first date or spending lavishly is not enough to impress the other person....
I asked my friend if this habit bothered her. She replied, “The day he starts eating seafood instead of chicken, I would know he’s cheating on me.” That got me thinking on how closely food and love relationships are associated. The way we look at food For instance, if you like to have the same kind of food every day, then you are looking for a comfort zone in your relationship....
Last year, I was associated with a colleague who wrote a book on “How to Deal with Divorce”. The attempt was to break the silence surrounding the event and to help those caught in the strife of breaking marriages. It was in striking similarity to what I had undergone. As we spoke to people during the course of writing, we realized that this was again a taboo. Many stayed away....
Typically, women struggle with it more than men. That said, this isn’t a gender-specific issue. If you too have found yourself tongue-tied when trying to use erotic conversations that will turn your partner on, this rundown on using the right words at the right time in the right tone will certainly help get things going. 15 Hot, Erotic Things To Say To Your Partner Sex is a lot more than stripping and getting down to business....
Goddess Bahucharaji is considered to be the primal deity of the transgender community of India. Legend has it Bahucharaji was a daughter of Bapal Detha of the Charan community. She and her sister were on a journey in a caravan when a marauder named Bapiya attacked them. Bahuchara and her sister killed themselves by cutting off their breasts. Bapiya was cursed and became impotent. The curse was lifted only when he worshipped Bahuchara Mata by dressing and acting like a woman....
This is not to say that I have never had sex before. I have had boyfriends, I have been married, I have been a mother too, but with Agnish (name changed) I realized that I knew so little about my own body. I belong to a generation where no one talked about the fact that women crave masturbation and we were told that exploring your own body is shameful. These notions were so ingrained in my head that they prevented me from taking control of my sexuality....
Trevor loves Chloe with all his heart but is very disrespectful of her opinions. He never lets Chloe make any decisions and this terribly affects their live-in relationship. Trevor likes to be in control and often walks all over Chloe’s feelings. The sad thing is that Chloe knows how much Trevor truly loves her which is why she chooses to condone his wrongdoings. Our advice is don’t be a Chloe....
For starters, the effect of my identity on my life is far wider than I give it credit for. It’s a bit like the nature-nurture debate – the more we think we can conquer nature with nurture – the extra hard our genes make their presence felt. And what’s a bigger identity in this country than religion, perhaps? Yes, there is region, gender, class and many ways we Indians have categorised ourselves – however, none that seems to jump out more than by what name we call the being we call Supreme....
