Kanta was all of 16 when she fell in love. At 16, she had not shed all of her puppy fat, had a cute face with a hint of dimples whenever she smiled, and was quite attractive in her own way. Kunal was a young fighter pilot, about 25 years old, fair with an aquiline nose and an impish smile. He was a frequent visitor to the local club. It was here at the club where Kanta and Kunal met for the first time and sparks flew all over....
Unresolved resentment in a marriage In every marriage, the two people involved can always have or find something of the other to feel resentful about. Carrying unresolved resentment in the heart, mind and marriage over long periods of time can spell doom for the marriage. It ultimately leads to accusations, justifications, screaming, counter accusations and much worse. Unaddressed issues don’t go away automatically. They stay and begin to fester. Top issues that lead to resentment in a marriage:...
10 Signs That Prove You’re In Love There are some ways to know if you’re in love and if the feelings that are overwhelming you are indeed true or not. Falling in love is an experience that brings with it abundant joy, a feeling of security, something to look forward to, and also a lot of other life lessons. But how do you know if you’re in love? Well, we have a checklist for you....
Instead of critiquing the fit of the dress or admiring its cut, the bright lights and the four-sided mirror made the two bald patches on my scalp very apparent. It had been 8 years since I had last seen them, and way back then, they were tiny. Today, in the trial room, I struggled to hide them with the rest of my long hair, fitting a pin wherever possible. I knew my OCD was back, and my breakup and his cheating had triggered it....
Like I said, the truth is that there is no magical number of dates before I love you does not freak your partner out. I mean, do you remember that scene from How I Met Your Mother? It took one date with Robin for Ted to say, “I think I am in love with you”. The best way to approach this is to get an idea of the pace you and your partner are comfortable with....
It’s not all doom and gloom, though. With a few tricks up your sleeve, not only will you be the best third wheel friend, you’ll definitely end up being more than just the photographer, and having some fun while you’re at it. So, did your bestie cook up a new love interest since you two made your New Year’s Eve plans? Or maybe you’ve just been in a phase of “finding yourself” and didn’t want to date....
With the lockdown nearing its fourth week, she said she was on the verge of a breakdown as she was always on the edge and feared for her life. She went on to say that the slightest disturbance like putting utensils away loudly while her husband watched TV would result in physical abuse and defamation of her character. Many women like her continue to stay in abusive marriages and suffer in silence for reasons like children, financial constraints, fear, etc....
It is unfair that your life takes a downturn because of your partner’s infidelity despite you being the faithful one. So what you need to do at this time is to learn to forgive and move on. To find inner peace and let go of the resentment inside your heart it is important to forgive a cheating boyfriend and move on. But that’s easier said than done. The question of how to forgive a cheating boyfriend can torment you as you try to cope with this setback....
Of course, it’s paramount to deal with insecurities after being cheated on if you want to stay together. But even if you don’t wish to stay together, it’s vital to process these feelings to ensure that you don’t carry these insecurities to your future relationships. It is natural to lose faith in people, especially romantic prospects, when someone cheats on you. To help you stop being paranoid after being cheated on, life coach and counselor Joie Bose, who specializes in counseling people dealing with abusive marriages, breakups and extramarital affairs, shares some actionable tips and insights....
(As told to Anupama Kondayya) I had gained a husband but lost a friend Additionally, I’d quit a vibrant city-life to move to the quiet dead suburbs of USA, welcomed by the worst winter of the decade. The house arrest, our differences, the illusion of familiarity, and other people/circumstances created a cauldron where many a terrible fight were cooked. We had some amazing times, too, sure. But punctuated by fights....
My love was tying me down, my love was leaving me confused, my love was not letting me move on…. And yet all I wanted was to keep loving. I didn’t know what it would feel like to move on and break free – I was wary of the unknown feeling of not ‘being attached’ and I didn’t want to let go of that cosy feeling of being with someone....
I was 19 when I got married. It was the 1980s and, as was the custom then, I met my husband for the first time at our engagement ceremony. All my friends envied my impending marriage. I never imagined I’d soon be cursing my luck and asking myself “how to leave an abusive relationship with no money?” I was marrying into a rich family from a posh part of the country....
I was talking to a friend that day and she is the kind who is posting everything that she is up to with her husband and kids on social media. “I often tag my ex’s brother on social media so that he could see what I am up to,” she said. Her statement set me thinking. People do have covert reasons for their social media activities, often. My friend was honest enough to tell me the truth but most won’t admit their real reasons for social media activities....
But the formality of a marriage is just not meant for some people. You see, marriage is a social and economic institution that has conditioned us to believe that love cannot be true without it. But nothing could be farther from the truth! I don’t need a piece of paper to tell the world who my life partner is. I’m happy with things the way that they are. So if you’re wondering if a live-in relationship is good or bad, read my story below to find out!...
Love (I am not talking about just the romantic kind) is entwined with loyalty. One tends to give rise to the other. When you feel passionate about a cause, a partner, or a friend you are bound to defend them and stand by them. Likewise, if you are loyal to someone, you tend to care about them. As I said, one cannot exist without the other. Yet for something so compelling, the lines can get blurred as well....
In reality, guys go through a lot after a breakup, most of which is not addressed or acknowledged by a majority of people. An interesting study points out that men view their ex-partners more favorably than women. This may have raised a host of questions in your mind. How do they act after a breakup? When do guys start to miss you after a breakup? Do men really not badmouth their exes?...
Shocking revelation about her past physical affairs Then we got married and went for our honeymoon. We returned two weeks later and the second day after we returned I got to know that she had affairs, and lots of other things which shocked me. When I asked her, she started crying and admitted everything. She was sleeping with a guy for the last 5 years. I was shocked and we both cried a lot....
So, I flew down to Mumbai, wore the white checked shirt she had bought me for this very meeting, wore formal black trousers and shoes. “You’ve got to dress up human before meeting them,” she had told me. “Captain America and Batman just won’t do!” Fine! Her father was a corporate heavyweight, the head of Indian operations for a multinational brand. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t nervous....
We often get the query ” I feel like I am stuck in relationship because of child or children”.Do you feel stuck in an unhappy marriage for the sake of your children? Though you are unhappy, you find that you can’t leave because of the impact it will have on the kids. However, does staying together for the kids work? We answer your questions in an exclusive interview with renowned Mumbai-based psychiatrist Dr....
From a casual hug to a harmless smile, a friendly touch to an innocent exchange of pleasantries, to more serious issues like a brighter career and a coveted social status — any of these can turn men into green-eyed monsters. Part of this trait arises out of the fact that men are considered to be more competitive, territorial, and protective by nature. If you’ve ever had on your hands a classic case of “he gets jealous but he is not my boyfriend”, the reactions of the man in question can be truly baffling....
