“It was a college romance. We were happy to be together and had a good relationship,” says Nandita who has been married to Jatinder Singh Paul for 32 years. There was the least resistance from either set of parents, and after eight years of courting, the two tied the knot in 1984. Recalling the early years, she speaks candidly of the time when she suffered severe post-partum depression after the birth of their first son in 1985....
After trying all possible attempts to move on from your ex, are you asking yourself, “Why am I having trouble getting over my ex? Why can’t I forget my ex? Why can’t I get over my toxic ex who put me in so much pain? Why is it so hard to let go?” Like the first day at school, or falling to the ground in a fight, or falling in love, a breakup is a key milestone in the growth and emotional development of our character....
One challenge that perhaps all couples identify with is being on opposing ends of a point of view. It could range fromtrivia to fundamental, from dressing-up styles and where to eat-out on Sunday afternoons to how to discipline children or how much to spend on what. Couples constantly negotiate for a working balance, giving-in on one front, claiming ground on another; the power balance continually shifts, the individual’s take-away can be less or more, but the family’s larger interests are rarely compromised....
10 Best Dialogues Of Rajkummar Rao Rajkummar Rao’s dialogues in his films are to die for. When you go through this curated list then you will know what we mean. This understated actor has some of the best films under his belt and the dialogues are to die for. 1. Shaadi Mein Zaroor Aana If the love is crazy and fulfilling, the breakup is also vengeful and ugly. This dialogue says it all....
You might not know the full story of what happened in your partner’s past. Did the two of you sit down and talk about this subject in order to get a little clarity on what happened in each other’s lives and how to not let it affect the current relationship? If yes, then that’s one of the mature ways of handling your emotions. Even though you can’t go back in time and change what has happened, it may still bother you....
Is he flush with cash? Or is he the kind of guy who just knows what you want? Does he walk around with a halo behind his head or is he a needle in the haystack you’re going to have to pick out? Let’s take a look at the high-value man traits so you can differentiate between someone you know will have your best interests in mind and someone who’ll probably ghost you the minute you say something like “So, where do you see this going?...
Is it too much to ask to find someone into the same things as you? All the dating apps you’ve been on seem to be filled with fans of The Office and Friends. Who even watches those anymore?! (Yeah okay, some of us watched the Friends reunion and shed a few nostalgic tears). The idea of discussing your favorite Death Note episodes with someone, or even just watching/re-watching your favorite sci-fi movies is no longer too good to be true....
So, if you are suspicious about your husband’s or partner’s activities, pay heed to the gut. To be sure, you can keep an eye out for some of the common excuses to cheat that your husband may be using. Is your husband always ready with an excuse to leave the house and stay out late? Does he have to suddenly stay over for late-night client meetings? Has he started traveling for work, which was not part of his portfolio before?...
Moreover, why would someone pretend to love you? The reasons may seem baffling to you since you’d never expect such a betrayal in the first place. And that’s exactly why some of the signs he never loved you can slip right by you since you’re so blinded by the trust you have in him. But then, how do you find out how he truly feels? He’s not exactly going to walk around carrying a placard....
20 New Year’s Resolutions For Couples In 2022 Yes, the way life has become today, we do need some New Year’s couple resolutions to keep the spark alive in the marriage and keep those constant bickerings and irritability at bay. There are things we should do and have forgotten doing the pressures we should not care about and most importantly make resolutions we should stick to. Here’s goes my 20 New Year’s resolutions for couples in 2022....
“Who even coins these relationship terminologies? When did it all get so confusing! What even are these different terms for relationships?” We know these concerns are weighing on you, especially if you’re in your mid-20s. But don’t fret at all. You don’t need to worry anymore about the dating game sprinting ahead and leaving you far behind. Catch up on the terms that define modern dating with our list below....
Today, you may be compatible as romantic partners and find everything your partner does acceptable and cute. In a marriage, ten years down the line, you may find it hard to see eye-to-eye on little problems, quirks or habits. These differences can blow up into everyday conflicts. There are things you should know before marriage and that will only make the foundation of your relationship solid. Asking the right, pointed questions will bring new aspects of your personalities to light....
1. “I miss you so much”: This might be true, might not be. This is very personal and puts you in a vulnerable place. Missing someone brings out the truth that they still hold importance in your life (and for your ex, you might not hold that kind of importance). A drunk person saying they miss someone when they cannot write full sentences on their own just shows how susceptible they are to their ex’s charm....
A wife lies to her husband sometimes to please him, sometimes to protect him: all in the labour of life. Seriously, you don’t want to spoil a romantic dinner by being completely honest about his cooking skills. You don’t want to spoil Valentine’s Day by being completely honest about the gift he bought. You’d rather see the earnest love behind those gestures and tell him exactly what he wants to hear....
But, like most aspects of intimacy, sex needs time, practice and understanding. The importance of sex in marriage is undoubted, but the path to it isn’t always smooth. While sex is the most looked-forward thing in marriage, newlywed intimacy issues are not uncommon. There are some common sex problems couples face that they most often don’t foresee. When sex in marriage goes amiss, newlyweds often don’t know how to solve it....
One spouse being homosexual in a heterosexual marriage can seem like the end of the road. You both want different things, desire the same, and neither can give it to the other. By all measures, it seems like an impasse, threatening your future as a couple. “My husband is gay, what do I do now?” You may find yourself consumed by this question, as your panic-stricken mind races to make sense of the blow you’ve been dealt....
The next morning, he sends you an innocent message, and before you know it, you are chatting with this married man who is stealing your heart a little more every day. Chats and conversations are still innocent and you don’t really dive into deep waters. Soon enough though, he asks you out on a casual date but your feelings for him have gone way beyond casual. He has become a habit for you now and no amount of wisdom or self-counseling can keep you away from this married man, you are head-over-heels in love with....
But the reality is quite different. To leave an abusive relationship or a controlling partner is easier said than done, and we tell you why. A healthy and fulfilling equation is missing in an abusive relationship where the burden to sustain the partnership falls only on one partner. They are pressured by many expectations to stay in an abusive marriage. There are various reasons behind these silent sufferings. To understand them, let’s begin by looking deeper into abusive relationships and why women continue to stay in domestic violence....
Every single person out there has struggled with feelings of insecurity or inadequacy, and people tend to carry these with them when they start dating. The “whys” of it can be tricky to figure out, and overcoming insecurity is also complex. Grappling with insecurity is never easy because it demands a lot of introspection. But if you’re here reading, then you’ve already taken the courageous first step. So let us begin this journey together, which will help you understand yourself a little more by finding an answer to “Why am I so insecure in my relationship?...
The roots of commitment issues run deep; neglecting them or not taking steps toward a resolution can be highly detrimental to a person’s wellbeing. Moreover, commitment affects each relationship we share – multiple aspects of our lives are impacted by our ability to commit and sustain a connection with others, or lack thereof. A subject as layered as this one is best understood with the guidance of a mental health professional....
